By Peter Wink
To be a great dealmaker, you have to know how to use all the powers at your disposal correctly and methodically. (Powers you likely do not even know you possess.)
This is not an area to be taken lightly, so let's get started. First, I want to start out by saying that power is not about coercion, conning, or strong-arming people into doing what you want. True, you may able to get a quick deal utilising 'power' in manipulative fashion. But in the long run, one or all of three things will happen…
1. The person you did business with will warn others to stay away from you, which is sure to kill your reputation in an already overcrowded, competitive environment.
2. The 'other side' will seek revenge on you or possibly take you to court, which leads to less sales and/or a possible costly lawsuit.
3. They will never do business with you again under any circumstance, which means that all the money you spent developing a relationship, now goes out the window.
So as you can see, power can be you worst enemy or your best friend (my choice).
With that in mind, you need to completely understand how to unleash power to your advantage during every negotiation. You also must understand how much power the other side has, as well as predict how they'll use it. This can be tricky, as everyone at the deal table puts on their best poker face. And some players are better than others.
The goal is to unleash and leverage all of your power, while diminishing the 'other side's'.
I'm now going to describe five sources of power you can unleash and leverage every time you negotiate. I've also included several questions you must ask yourself when considering how much power you and the other side really has.
Options are all of the various choices available to both you and the other side. The more options you have, the stronger your negotiating position.
There are eight power options (and questions) you need to consider.
Whoever has the most risk has the least power in the negotiation. And whoever has least at stake, is all mighty! Always do whatever it takes to minimise your risk.
Ask yourself the following questions in relation to risk…
The person, who knows the most and executes, has a huge advantage in the negotiation. There are no exceptions to this rule!
Ask yourself the following questions in relation to knowledge…
You cannot ever have enough information about the other side. Obtaining mass amounts of information is one of the keys to understanding the other side and getting them to agree to a deal that is right for them.
The individual or organisation having the most time to make a decision, has the upper hand in any negotiation.
Time can work 'for' or 'against' you. Therefore, it's very important to take time to negotiate major issues before time starts to work against you. By giving yourself more time, you have more options at your disposal. As time ticks away, your options start lessening at record speed.
Haste makes waste!
Let's use an all-too familiar example…a teacher's strike! School boards know to the 'minute' when their teacher's contracts are up for renewal. In most cases, it's the union that's ready to sit down and start negotiations way ahead of time. Many school boards tend to feel they have plenty of time for a quick renegotiation. And what ends up happening? They start negotiating less than three months prior to the opening of the new school year. They run out of time and schools end up opening late. And in many cases, they end up having to give in to the teacher's union out of desperation. Time always seems to work against the school board and every year thousands of students suffer due to these deadlocks.
Ask yourself the following questions in regard to time…
Time is crucial to successful dealmaking! With the proper amount of time, you'll have more time to strategise, analyse, and act on all of your options. Without it, you're doomed to failure, and will play into the hands of the negotiator with time to make the deal. Whoever has the most time to make the deal usually has the most power in the negotiation.
This is leveraging the power of outside experts.
Utilising this power is a must when dealing with issues you and/or the other side don't fully understand. The challenge is to find an expert having both the credentials and the ability to read the situation and its variables properly.
Ask yourself the following questions in relation to outside experts…
This is leveraging the power of outside experts. Utilising this power is a must when dealing with issues you and/or the other side don't fully understand. The challenge is to find an expert having both the credentials and the ability to read the situation and its variables properly.
Ask yourself the following questions in relation to outside experts…
As you can see, you have more power at your disposal than you think. And none of it includes manipulation, coercion, strong-arming or anything unethical.
By utilising these five powers, you will have a much better understanding of yourself, the deal and the other side, allowing you to successfully close great deal every time.
And that's advice you can literally take to the bank!
Peter Wink is a negotiating expert and bestselling author of Negotiate Your Way to Riches and Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About. www.buyingsecretsretailersdontwantyoutoknowabout.com